2010/1/25

The quality of a good hug to a child's psychological

Michael Chong, the United States Pacific University, Psychology Ph.D., thinking and emotional intelligence research specialists, the United States Association of Hypnosis (ABH) recognized hypnosis instructor.

  

Psychological studies have shown that those who are often touch and hug the child's psychological quality of children than the absence of these actions much healthier.

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Who slowly grow up, between parents and children will be reduced this intimacy, especially in Chinese children than American children received little hugging and kissing, to a 10-year-old on the few people and then hugging and kissing them in , until after the age of 20 fall in love more than a decade in between, the people are very much the lack of intimate physical contact. Dr Chong believes that such children generally lack a sense of security will be relatively poor psychological quality, easy to form a self-protection, interaction with the outside world will also appear some obstacles. So, between parents and their children, hugging is very important.

Dr. Chuang explains that people need to embrace, which is the body's magnetic field. The body's magnetic field will be lost contact with the outside world or to be in order to maintain balance, if the balance, people will fall ill, fear, no self-confidence, very often need to embrace the body touch, etc. to make the magnetic field to restore balance, acquire physical and mental balance.

As the baby crying loudly after terror, and then my mother would put him in my arms, pat his back to comfort, Dr. Chuang said: "The children were scared after the destruction of the magnetic field on the extent which rendered imbalance, her mother's embrace and Touch is a baby's magnetic field on the repair. "

Between parents and their children are embracing techniques, especially for adolescent children. Dr Chong noted that there are seven parts of the body's magnetic field is very important points, corresponding to the location of each overhead Tianling Gai, two days between the eyes, throat, heart, navel, bladder and coccyx. He suggested that parents hug their children, they can consciously be touching on these sites.

For adolescent children, the heart and bladder of these two parts of the massage is very important, the heart is to allow the release of a child learn to love, know how to love the location, the bladder is part of the genitals, the child's sexual development is very important, when parents embrace may be noted.

Of course, not directly touching a hand to push these parts, a hug is enough. Parents do not self-conscious on a child's love is the greatest love, and the child's hug is the most natural. In addition to normal hug outside more with their children, the children not feeling well, the parents of the touch is the best medicine.

Dr Chuang said, hugging can eliminate frustration - can increase the effectiveness of the immune system; hug the body for burnout inject new energy and make you more younger, more dynamic. In the family, hug a day will be able to strengthen the relationship among members, and greatly reduce friction.

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